Very down today, my fianc and I are at breaking point in our relationship, its been just over a month since my ectopic pregnancy loss and I have started my period. To make matters worse, my fianc doesnt want to try for another child until after we are married September next year. I have lost 3 babies in as many years. I cant understand how a man could want them when I was pregnant but not to want to try again now. He says the timing is off, that we are not ready for a family, but that he was ready for the baby we just lost. I dont understand his logic on this at all, I dont understand how he can pick and chose if the time is right when is was perfect just a month ago. I know the lost of an ectopic does strange things to men that he feels he should be strong and is worried for my health. But I cant help but I cant help but think there is something more to it than that. The pregnancy was unplanned thought very much wanted.............could it be that he doesnt want me anymore?