my first pregnancy was great..my little boy was healthy even after toxemia and having a c-section. My son is 14 months old. My husband and I decided to try again this April and concieved in 2 weeks, I would have never thought I would have an ectopic! I am 25 and my first pregnancy was a success. I am so confused to why I am going through this. I took the shots last friday to discontinue the pregnancy- my levels are supposed to go down by friday. As if the ectopic hasn't scared me and emotionally killed me, now I am worried about what caused my ectopic. My doctor said we would do laproscopy after this is over to see. She didn't act like it was going to be a huge deal, but I am terrified that when she goes in something terrible will be wrong! I am just wanting to talk to someone who has went through what I am going through and is comfortable enough to chat with me..I don't have a clue what has caused this ectopic, I mean obviously I was very fertile to get pregnant the first month we tried so I am hoping that there isn't something terribly wrong with me. I don't mean to sound selfish I have cried and cried over my baby that has went on to be w/the Lord. Is it normal to be going this crazy about what's wrong with me? When I read stuff on the internet it sometimes makes me worry more.....

Ok thanks and I definately would appreciate thoughts and advice. And my heart truely goes out to all other women who have went through this!!